Spiritual Parent/Grandparent

February 19, 2023

In light of this week’s message, we encourage you to consider these questions and dig in a little deeper with your personal study, with your family, or with your small group.

1. What is your favorite story or memory of your grandparents? Ever consider how many direct descendants they are responsible for?

2. Over this series we have covered a lot of ground. Let’s see what we have learned so far. How do you define a disciple and what is the discipleship process we have discussed? (hint: Matthew 4:19 and discipleship wheel)

3. To conclude this series, we are looking at the last stage of growth in the discipleship wheel called the “Spiritual Parent/Grandparent” where your discipling of others goes on to multiply for generations. We see this discipleship process (Make, Mature, and Multiply) in a powerful passage when Paul is discipling Timothy. Read 2 Timothy 2:1-2. What stands out to you about their relationship and Paul’s challenge? (Be sure to describe the relational “make” (son), the informational “mature” (teach), and the challenge “multiply” (pass them on).

4. Jesus discipled Peter, Peter discipled Barnabus, Barnabus discipled Paul, Paul discipled Timothy, and Timothy discipled trustworthy men and women in his church to go and do the same. Each of them spent a lot of time personally investing their lives, time, and energy into knowing them, growing them, and releasing them to go and do the same. Who have you been discipling or been discipled by in the past few weeks? How has it been going?

5. Read Romans 10:14-15. What stands out to you following Paul’s logic and discipleship patterns? How does it feel knowing that by the Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20) you have been sent? Share where/who you feel God is sending you to go and spend some time praying for each other.

Young Adult

February 12, 2023

In light of this week’s message, we encourage you to consider these questions and dig in a little deeper with your personal study, with your family, or with your small group.

Read: 1 John 2:12-14, 3:16-18, Romans 12:1-2, 9-13

1. According to these passages, what are some qualities or characteristics of a spiritual young adult?

2. In your own spiritual Journey, do you feel like you are in the Child-stage (More about me) or the young adult stage (More about others)?

3. If someone asked your family, friends and co-workers if you cared about others more than caring about yourself, what would their answer be? What reasons would they have for their answer?

4. One of the questions asked in the teaching was “How can I grow to care about others?” Which of the answers (Be a Self Feeder, be a God Pleaser, and Serve Others) do you struggle with the most? What do you need to do to change it?

5. How are you helping others grow in their faith? (Give room for growth, expect messes, give guidance, be available, be an encourager, or?

6. As you move from spiritual child to spiritual young adult, what are some personal and practical ways you can serve others? Make a commitment to do so. Set a reminder on your calendar so you don’t forget.

Child

February 5, 2023

In light of this week’s message, we encourage you to consider these questions and dig in a little deeper with your personal study, with your family, or with your small group.

1. What is something in your life that you still are a “Child at Heart” when doing? (ie. roller coasters, candy, video games, sports, etc.)

2. Part of discipleship is identifying where someone is on their journey. To know if someone is a spiritual child (ie. saved and has grown in knowledge but is still self-centered) what are some things you would expect someone in this stage of growth to say? Why would these examples have self-centered implications? Examples: “I didn’t like the music today. I wish they played…” “I believe in Jesus and my church is in the woods.” “Don’t add or multiply my small group, I really feel comfortable right now.” “I am not being fed the way I want in my church, so I am going to a church that meets my needs better” etc.

3. Jesus modeled how to disciple those who would identify as the stage of a spiritual child. Read Mark 10:35-45. Who was being self-centered in their purpose and how did Jesus correct that thought process?

4. Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 and then vs 11. How was Paul implying childish things and the purpose of love? How does true Godly love and putting away childish selfish behavior relate to one another?

5. The primary discipleship goal for growth when engaging with a spiritual child is to Connect. In the sermon, we learned we are called to connect in 3 different ways:
 
  1. Connect with God
  2. Connect to a Small Group
  3. Connect to Purpose
 
What from this lesson and these 3 areas of connecting are you doing well and which do you need to focus on this week to improve?

Infant

January 29, 2023

In light of this week’s message, we encourage you to consider these questions and dig in a little deeper with your personal study, with your family, or with your small group.

  1. Based on your own knowledge of physical infants, explain why one-on-one care with a new believer cannot be neglected.
  2. Many of the things we do in church (worship, weekly communion, etc.) confuse new believers. Are there any areas of biblical truth that you are confused about? Please share. 
  3. New believers may not understand why they need to attend church regularly. Read Hebrews 10:24-25 as a group. Based on this scripture, and in your opinion, why do we meet weekly? 
  4. What are some important stories from the old testament that you think a new believer should know?
  5. What about important stories from Jesus’ life? 
  6. How can we as a small group pray for you, or someone you’re discipling this week? 

Spiritually Dead

January 22, 2023

In light of this week’s message, we encourage you to consider these questions and dig in a little deeper with your personal study, with your family, or with your small group.

1. How was the Gospel first shared with you? What worked, what didn’t work, or what could have been better?

2.  Part of discipleship is identifying where someone is on their journey. To know if someone is spiritually dead (ie. doesn’t have a saving relationship with Jesus) what are some things you would expect for them to say? 

Examples:
“I believe there is a God. That’s good enough”
“God is just a crutch.” 

“There is no absolute right or wrong.”
 
3.  Read Acts 17:16-34.What stands out to you in the tactic that Paul used to share the gospel?
 
4.  Read 1 Peter 3:15. What is your reason for the hope that you have? What would be the best way for you to share that with an unbeliever?
 
5. The primary discipleship goal when engaging with a spiritually dead person is to SHARE.  In the sermon, we learned we are called to share in 5 different ways:
 
Share:
  • A relationship
  • A picture of the real Jesus in your lifestyle
  • Answers and evidence for Christianity 
  • An explanation of the gospel message
  • An invitation to receive Christ
 
Which of these 5 areas of sharing are you doing well and which do you need to focus on this week to improve?
 
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Go – Week 2

January 15, 2023

In light of this week’s message, we encourage you to consider these questions and dig in a little deeper with your personal study, with your family, or with your small group.

1. What are some resolutions you have made in the past that you kept? Why were you successful? What are resolutions you have made in the past that you have failed to keep? Why did you fail?

2. What role has having someone hold you accountable been helpful for you in accomplishing goals?

3. Read Acts 14:21-25. What stood out to you in how Paul and Barnabas made disciples?

4. What was their plan? 

A. Go-Share the Gospel & Make Disciples
B. Go-Strengthen & Encourage
C. Go-Endured & Appoint
D. Go-Pray & Fast
E.  Go-Release Disciples to Go and Do Likewise

What from this plan are you doing well in making disciples (followers of Jesus) and what from this list do you need to improve?

5. What is one step you can commit to right now to become a better Disciple and be a better Disciple Maker? How can we as a group help hold one another accountable to take these steps?

Am I winning?

January 8, 2023

In light of this week’s message, we encourage you to consider these questions and dig in a little deeper with your personal study, with your family, or with your small group.

1. Everyone please write down your answer before sharing, (or type in their notes the answer to this question) “What does winning (succeeding) look like as a Christian?” Share with one another what you wrote down. Are there any differences?

2. Pastor and Author David Platt said, “In physical life, if reproduction isn’t happening, we know something is wrong, we evaluate and try new things. If reproduction isn’t happening in the Christian life, there is something wrong at the core. There is something that needs to be addressed.” Do you agree?

3. Read  John 17:4-9. In John 17:4 Jesus says he has completed the work the father had for him to do. What did Jesus complete before he went to the cross?

4. How would you define a disciple? Now read  Matthew 4:19. Matthew shows a simple process of discipleship, to be known or knowing.

5. Who is one person in your life that you think would accept an invitation to begin a simple relationship to help grow in Jesus? How can you be in prayer or be invitational to them this week?